Monday, February 25, 2008
real forgiveness is/not
1) unconditional (col 3:13) forgiving one another
2)forgiveness does not minimize the seriousness of the offence.forgivenss should be treated seriously.when we ask people for forgiveness we should treat it seriously and not treat is as a matter of joke.
(proverbs 26:18-19)
3) forgiveness isn't resuming a relationship without changing.
aplogizing is not enough.
1)repentance = "i know i am wrong""promise to change"(treat it seriously with this promise)
2) restituition
3) rebuilding of trust.(we may have forgiven the person who has hurt us but we may not trust them again.)
4) forgiveness isn't forgetting about what had happen.
5) forgiveness isn't my right when i was not the one being hurt.
why is it important to forgive?
god has forgiven us of all our sin.we will see the value god has a greater purpose for us.forgive also becos we want to let go of the past and unhappiness.new things will come upon us.we do not want our live to be eaten up.we should take responsiblity for our own action and not pushing blames to other.
life is only 10%"wad will happen and 90% how we react?
how we define value?
1) wad's most important to us?
2) wad we stand for?
3) wad we willing to pay the price for?
he exchange something that was so valuable to memorable thing.
(hebrew12:17)
we do not lead change,but changes could lead us.it is impossible that offence will not come.if we judge wad we value by our circumstance,we will die.value wad is important to give value to wad is momentary.in a moment of anger,we should give all our anger to god or we end up losing a spiritual life.
(hebrew 12:15)
big rock in life.
education,relationship,faith.
get spiritual life back from GOD..
first things we must focus on.
-spiritual life.
-forgive and let go.
-change between the inside of us.
4 pts of forgiveness
1) give up your right to get even.(romans 12:19)..people that we love will hurt us too.
2)set boundaries
3) respond to evil with good.(luke 6:27-28)
4)repeat these steps as long as necessary.(matthew 18:21-22)..
my day today
today was a damn "suay" day for me.early in the morning haven go school at my house downstairs fall down from steps than shorts pocket torn.than nvm go school having maths lesson cannot put the key in my pocket sure drop de than key was misplaced lucky raifee saw n take it.thn particular people snatch from me untill can't find it n found out someone hide it!than after school..came home,cook lunch than the soup accidentally scalded my hand dunno wad day is it today lorx.so suay!but as long as iie noe this verse"with god all things are possible...but today in school,i could actually felt the presnese of god!! PTL..
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 5:14 AM
Sunday, February 24, 2008
hmm..yesterday i was mentioning abt god's 10 commanmend's.today is abt service msg
jesus walks on waterImmeadiately jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side,while he dismissed the crowd.after he had dismissed them,he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray.when evening came,he was there alone but the boat was already a considerable distance from land buffeted by the waves because the wind was agaisnt it . during the fourth watch of the night,jesus went out to them walking on the lake,when the disciples saw him walking on the lake,they said and cried out in fear but jesus immediately said to them: "take courage!it is me.don't be afraid."peter replied:" Lord if it's you who tell me to come to you on the water."come."he said.then peter got down out of the boat walked on the water and came towards jesus.but when he saw the wind,he was afraid,begginning to sink and cry out to lord"save me"!jesus immeadiatley stretch out his hands and caught him."you of little faith"he said"why did you doubt?"and when they climbed into the boat,the wind die down.then those who were in the boat worshipped him,saying"truly you are the Son Of God"when they had crossed over,they landed at gennesaret and when the men oh that place reconized jesus,they sent word to all the surrounding country.people brought all their sick to him and begged him to let the sick just touch the edge of his cloak and all who touch him shall be healed!."
(holy bible NIV)(matthew 14:22-35)...
today me woke up ard 7.55am bath everything left house ard 8.15am.have breakfast and went to church reach ard 9.20.pre-svc PM was ok la..than had a short break.after break went back for svc loved the praised n worship today!today svc with rev dr ulf ekman quite short cos he have to rush down to jurong west haha.(pastor are so busy haha)..after svc got a prayer meeting went for it and found out that is too late for me to rush down to AMK for caisheng's dad funerals!had already prayed for him..so prayer meeting ended ard 3.05pm.go eat something at food court there with valerie than my dad came.reach home around 4 plus than sleep for awhile than eat dinner at 7.45pm sent my bro back to NS reach home abt half an hour ago.
now blogging,msn..later at 10pm bath,pray to god,msn awhile,sleep!.
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 5:20 AM
Saturday, February 23, 2008
somehow feel guilty when a christian disobey the ten commanmends.i use to hate someone in my life.the person has made me hate her since sec1...2 years later i still hate her.but guess wad i read through the bible again just now when i had nothhing to do and the bible say"beloved,let us love one another,for love is of God;and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God"(1john 4:7)...
the bible says loving for enemies
you have heard that it was said"love your neighbour and hate your enemy but i tell you love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you that you may be sons of your father in heaven.he causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good,and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous.if you love those who love you,wad re-ward will you get?are not even the tax collector doing that?and if you greet only your brothers,wad are u doing more than others?do not even pagans do that?be perfect,therefore as your heavenly Father is perfect."
(matthew 5:43-47)(holy bible NIV)
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 5:34 AM
Friday, February 22, 2008
yesterday we got a new teacher."very nice"by calling ** *****.. is "far too smart"should known earlier that we hate to see***** in class right.purposley be smart aleck go call *****..fine we already like let it go..said something which was far too unreasonable...
1): "i have the right to sent you all to girls home or boys home"
2)"if your never hand in work on time i will invite myself to your home.even if it's 12 mid-night i will spent money on cab to your home.i have the right to do that.i have been in the ymc for 5 years and sent your to gilrs home or boys home.i have the right to do it!"
3)"if i ask your stayback,your never stay back i go your hse find your"
4)"i have all the girls home or boys home or any counselling place the number i hve the right to contact them"(than read out all the numbers.)
5) lesson end at 10.00am she left at 9.53 and told another person" .......it's already 9.55am they hving recess soon we can go off already!"
6)say we are baby.wadever say we have to do.but inside the heart we are the dog to this teacher.
7) "one day i m in this class teaching,your have to suffer under my hand"she uses this word suffer!
8) this boy never do anything in class,ask ***** to get him out of e class cos him to kanna scolding for NO REASON!
this are all the "GOOD THINGS" THIS TEACHER HAS DONE"let me tell u this without our parents consent , you can't do anything.you dun hv the right to sent us to the home's.!!ya u right.u not come to school to be popular!but to be the one we hate the most pls get it clear that you r jus a RELIEF TEACHER!
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 11:16 PM
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
today in class wwas okay okay la.after sch went for ccawent ard classrooms to check for faulty computer.it was very fun indeed!
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 7:21 AM
Monday, February 18, 2008
value to built upon:
1) LOYALTY:(aligned ourself and be loyal to god)
2) COMMITMENT( if there's no commitment,nothing can be done)
3)RESPECT( submission to authority is a kingdom attitude)(philipians2:5-9)
4)ACCOUNTABILITY( communication)(connected) (john 15:5)
5)FAMILY(balance)
6)LOVE(forgiveness , mercy)(we cannot built anything with bitterness and hatred.we can only built with love.(matthew 12:20)
(1st corinthians13:4-5) says: loves never fails.we can give loves to every single people.faith moves through loves.
7)FAITHFULNESS(trust)(luke 16:10-12)(1st corinthians 4:2)be faithful!
8)DELIGENCE( hardwork)(2nd thes 3:10)(there's no free luch in this world)
9)INTERGRITY(truthfulness)(john 19:6)(john 8:44)(mathhew 9:12-13)
10) GENEROUS(giving)(acts 20:35)(1st timothy 6:6-8)(exodus20:13-17)(james3:14-16)(romans 1:29-32)(2nd timothy3:1-4)(i dun hv so much energy to type out so much,so i jus type all e verse if ur have tym turn to the bible n read:)
V.A.L.U.E.S
1)Visible (identity)
2)Attract(magnet)
3)Lead (compass)
4)Unite (glue)
5)Establish
6)Standard (ruler)
2)
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 7:15 AM
Friday, February 15, 2008
woke up at 6am in the morning..than wash up and all went to school around 6.35am.reach school ard 6.50am than wait till 7am i collect classroom key go open the classrooms.than morning assembly at 7.20.than went down to parade square.early in the morning some misunderstanding happened make me super unhappy nevermind than whole school was dismiss at abt 7.50am me n asst monitress went off first to open the classroom.1st period was maths lesson was okok la.than follow by eng lesson wah that teacher horx..power..anyway did something to her but in the end she forgived me sorry ah.and thanks.recess maths again same la okok.english this tym round this teacher really guess wad
me:cher sign class diary
ms jermaine tan: ok can..wad's your name?
me: nameless
ms tan:no,i dun believe
me:really la!
ms tan:you dun tell me i dun sign.
me:ah la give up la my name is ........
she horx realli sia.dunno wad to say..than after eng follow by science lesson borins sia.can sleep ah!..after school me n asst monitress went to look for a teacher to sign class diary we waited 1/2 an hrs.nvm la.she our co-form mah.somehow clear the misunderstanding by the end of after school.
conclusion for today:1)i was wrong for being rude to teacher.thank god she forgive me.she quite a nice teacher la anyway haha.
2) whenever we have a misunderstanding with others,is better to clarify than keep making wild guess..sometimes misunderstanding can cause alot of things to happen.because of one small misunderstanding,sometimes friendship can even be broke jus like that.maybe sometimes person A may not even know wad's goiing on but person B keep making wild guess without clarifying the matter.in the end the 2 good friends become enemy.so pls any misunderstanding better clarify than losing friendship.
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 6:37 AM
Thursday, February 14, 2008
today no lesson in school cos the whole school went to sdc haha.but very bored there.not feeling very well also larhx.but for the sake of my class than i go if not poor thing no door go in lol!haha jus kidding wad.even if i dun hv go school i still hv my four more monitor to help me =) hehe.
conclusion for today..nononono is reflection.wad have i done today:
never really do anything except sleeping haha.!ok larhx.i stil wanna sleep somemore alrdy.so will onli post untill here..sorry ah anyway my blogskins alittle bit sort liao but still got post to see no worries.very tired liao tmr than i do it haha..
HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY TO ALL!!
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 6:16 AM
Tuesday, February 12, 2008
this morning..nononono in fact is ytd morning my mood was super good lorx.untill SOMEBODY came to provoke me..want pple to friend her she like this. forget abt it larhx!
when after D&T when back classrooms open the door and its NOT the first time i hearing from dunno which idiot"hey faster open the door la u"so slow"tell u wad if u thing is easy to rush here n there than you do it!or esle shut up!
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 4:22 AM