Monday, February 25, 2008
real forgiveness is/not
1) unconditional (col 3:13) forgiving one another
2)forgiveness does not minimize the seriousness of the offence.forgivenss should be treated seriously.when we ask people for forgiveness we should treat it seriously and not treat is as a matter of joke.
(proverbs 26:18-19)
3) forgiveness isn't resuming a relationship without changing.
aplogizing is not enough.
1)repentance = "i know i am wrong""promise to change"(treat it seriously with this promise)
2) restituition
3) rebuilding of trust.(we may have forgiven the person who has hurt us but we may not trust them again.)
4) forgiveness isn't forgetting about what had happen.
5) forgiveness isn't my right when i was not the one being hurt.
why is it important to forgive?
god has forgiven us of all our sin.we will see the value god has a greater purpose for us.forgive also becos we want to let go of the past and unhappiness.new things will come upon us.we do not want our live to be eaten up.we should take responsiblity for our own action and not pushing blames to other.
life is only 10%"wad will happen and 90% how we react?
how we define value?
1) wad's most important to us?
2) wad we stand for?
3) wad we willing to pay the price for?
he exchange something that was so valuable to memorable thing.
(hebrew12:17)
we do not lead change,but changes could lead us.it is impossible that offence will not come.if we judge wad we value by our circumstance,we will die.value wad is important to give value to wad is momentary.in a moment of anger,we should give all our anger to god or we end up losing a spiritual life.
(hebrew 12:15)
big rock in life.
education,relationship,faith.
get spiritual life back from GOD..
first things we must focus on.
-spiritual life.
-forgive and let go.
-change between the inside of us.
4 pts of forgiveness
1) give up your right to get even.(romans 12:19)..people that we love will hurt us too.
2)set boundaries
3) respond to evil with good.(luke 6:27-28)
4)repeat these steps as long as necessary.(matthew 18:21-22)..
my day today
today was a damn "suay" day for me.early in the morning haven go school at my house downstairs fall down from steps than shorts pocket torn.than nvm go school having maths lesson cannot put the key in my pocket sure drop de than key was misplaced lucky raifee saw n take it.thn particular people snatch from me untill can't find it n found out someone hide it!than after school..came home,cook lunch than the soup accidentally scalded my hand dunno wad day is it today lorx.so suay!but as long as iie noe this verse"with god all things are possible...but today in school,i could actually felt the presnese of god!! PTL..
I am living in the world of darkness but i know that God will be the light. at 5:14 AM